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God Has Your Marital Destiny In His Hands

God is still in the business of giving life partners, He will give you yours. (IF YOU ARE NOT MARRIED)

Today I shall be showing you how to get God’s best in your marriage destiny. That is, how to discover your God ordained husband or wife. As strange as this message may seem, it is undeniably important.

Overtime many people have thought that it is not possible for God to decide who they marry. But the truth is if God cares about you then everything about you should matter to Him.

If one strand of your hair is important to God, how much more your life partner. Your marital destiny is in Gods hands all you need to do is to discover it.

God has no problem showing you your life partner, are you ready to discover him/her? If you are ready then this message is for you.

THE STEPS IN DISCOVERING GOD’S CHOICE.
YOUR PERCEPTION: What perception do you have about marriage? Do you think that God has no business in determining who you marry? Or are you of the school of thought that thinks that God does not know how you feel or what you want emotionally. Far be it, your creator can never be wrong in His choices. He knows your tomorrow, He knows ten years from now, and before He created you He had His full scale plan for you. Jeremiah 1 vs. 5. Nobody can be more right than God. The issue is what are your perceptions, is marriage a game of luck to you, or your materialistic culture decides your choice. Is marriage an escape route from poverty for you? Is marriage a tribal or a class issue for you? Are looks or body features your number one pre requisite? It is good to have a set of qualities you want or you like but it must not be the first thing in your mind. You have to make God your Lord, ready to obey His every word. Redirect your perception to the truth that God still gives life partners, He is about giving you yours. Your perception of a woman or as a woman is to be a help meet. That was why God created you according to Genesis 2 vs. 18. As a lady start practicing how to be a help meet in all round issues. This does not make you the head it only makes you a solid supporter in words, deeds and thoughts.

YOUR INTENTION: marriage is an institution of God and not man, what are your intentions are your intentions to please God or to intimidate people that thought you would not get married, is your only intention just to get pregnant or have children to be seen as a complete man or woman? To discover Gods chosen partner for you, you must make your intentions right. These are the major intentions for marriage;
a. TWO ARE BETTER THAN ONE: two are better than one Ecclesiastes 4 vs. 9. No matter who you are in life or what you have achieved, you will only get better through marriage. So marriage is a union for more impact and development. Marriage is intended for helps, spiritually, physically and mentally.
b. ONE SHALL CHASE A THOUSAND BUT TWO SHALL PUT TEN THOUSANDS TO FLIGHT: marriage was designed by God to increase you, to expand your coasts and to multiply you. Be prepared for increase in responsibilities.
You are not intended to get married just to make your family happy; you must desire this kind of increase and responsibility that marriage brings. As a lady desire to be a help meet in any capacity and as a man desire to build a home. You must have a plan and vision for your home/family because you are the head. You must put your mind and hand to work; you must be doing something or investing in developing yourself. You must get a job or work as the case may be.

NOTE
I LIKE TO STATE VERY STERNLY HERE THAT YOU CAN GET A WIFE FOR YOURSELF OR A HUSBAND AS THE CASE MAY BE BUT WHEN GOD GIVES YOU YOUR OWN THERE IS A MAJOR DIFFERENCE AND GOD MOST TIMES REVEAL ONLY WHEN YOUR INTENTIONS AND PERCEPTIONS ARE CORRECT. THIS IS NOT A FUNCTION OF AGE. SO WISDOM DEMANDS THAT INSTEAD OF WISHING AND JUST PRAYING START MAKING YOUR PERCEPTIONS AND INTENTIONS RIGHT.

THIS IS HOW GOD REVEALS WHO YOUR LIFE PARTNER IS AFTER YOUR INTENTIONS AND PERCEPTION ARE CORRECT.

1. GOD ORGANISES CONNECTIONS. Who you will marry will not fall from heaven, that person is not so far from your circle of contact, God will take you to places that the man will find you, even if he does not notice you, He will keep on establishing the connection. To discover Gods will you must be patient. He that finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord. Proverbs 18 vs. 22. To find something there must be a connection, for that man to find you, you have to make yourself available, that is go out to good places, be accommodating and hospitable. Don’t hide yourself in the house, be nice to people. As a lady for the man to find you, you must be presentable, you must be attractive, Try to look good, not seducing, I mean have a free spirit, let that attraction generate from your inside, because it is your spirit that will be attracted to the REAL MAN’S spirit, not your body, once your spirit is attractive, your body will follow too. So when your intentions and perceptions are okay, your spirit takes form in the right direction. It is the work of God to organize the connection; your work is to be ready, available and presentable. So your heart matters most in knowing Gods will. You are not available if you are double dating or triple dating.

2. OPPORTUNITIES; each new day is an opportunity to meet the right person, so whenever the opportunity arises to help somebody in any way please be ready to do it. Her car may break down and you might really be in a hurry, this could just be your opportunity as a man. To help first, not to date or take advantage of, that is why I talked about your intentions and perceptions first. Be prepared for the opportunity God brings day in day out. Most people miss their opportunity without knowing but how will they know except they are prepared for it. So you must be prepared, that wrong number that called you could be an opportunity. These opportunities do come to us everyday but the devil counterfeits it, people see it as an opportunity for bad things so they miss it. You wont miss your opportunity in Jesus name

3. THE VOICE OF GOD; God also reveals by His voice, that is if you are used to hearing God when He speaks to your heart, He can just tell you the person when you meet him or her, but after the voice there will be confirmations, through His word concerning what He told you. And if God spoke to you, He will speak to her to confirm it or may have spoken to her already. So as a guy you don’t just go to the girl and say GOD SAID… all you need to do is to pray for God to reveal it to her, and God will if He was the one that spoke to you. Please also know that to be clear on Gods voice, you must be clear on His word in the bible. Like I always say, it is the word of God that makes the voice of God clearer, so you must be a word addict so as to be voice guided and directed.

4. DREAMS AND REVELATIONS; GOD also speaks through this medium but the devil also uses this to deceive people too. To get the right dream your mind must be renewed daily and your thoughts must be Godly, by this the devil will have no way to pollute the correctness of your dream.

God is your father, it is not a hard thing for him to reveal who He had in mind for you to marry before you were born according to Jeremiah 1 vs. 5 but the major problem is that we are not always ready so in other to be ready you have to have the right perspective and the right intention according to what was taught at the beginning of this message.

In closing, Isaiah 34 vs. 16 says; Seek ye out of the book of the LORD, and read: no one of these shall fail, none shall want her mate: for my mouth it hath commanded, and his spirit it hath gathered them.
You must be a word addict, you must be prayerful, and you must also be spiritual serving the Lord.

God has your marital destiny in His hands, and you will get yours and every other thing that follows; both the blessings of marriage and children in Jesus Precious name Amen.

~Pastor Uch

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4 Responses to “God Has Your Marital Destiny In His Hands”

  1. ..thanks somuch for the light..in cases where the lady is fully aware.she’s got thousands of confirmatiön but d guy who seems to know too is not showing up.what could be done?

  2. I really love the teachings coz am on the way.I would like to get copy of this teachings or how can i get the book in this teachings.May God bless you.

  3. Thank you very much. this is now going to help me

  4. This message is a divine God ordained conformation to me. However, how do you handle or deals with a situation where God reveals and leads that person to you where both falls in love with each others spirit and are ministerially compatible, as well as shares the same perceptions and thought and prayers for God’s will but there’s a person that wast there before even thou they are not married because of doubt? do i walk away or like Esther wait in prayer? both of us are prayer partners in a group and we both are suppressing our thoughts and emotions for what is morally and spiritually right. L. Glory


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