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Lack Of Communication Can Affect A Marriage

The key to a successful and healthy marriage is good communication. Many relationships failed because of poor communication. Many couples find it hard to express how they feel for each other. They don’t know how to verbalize their needs and they don’t know how to listen carefully. If you are one of those people, then it might be time to read some tips for an effective communication.

• Be tactful. Before you even say something, you have to think about it. Is it something that you really have to tell your husband or wife? Do you really mean what you are going to say?

• Pay attention. When your spouse wants to say something to you, you’ve got to listen very carefully. Don’t just pretend that you are listening.

• Wait for your turn to talk and have some patience. When your spouse is talking, you need to listen first before you talk. Don’t interrupt the person. It’s a way of showing you respect your partner.

• Be honest about your feelings and thoughts. Don’t fabricate things to cover up your true emotions.

• Find time to talk. No matter how busy you are with your jobs and kids (if you have any), you need to find the best time to talk. You need to talk to understand each other.

• Express your resentments in a nice way. Don’t just keep it inside. Let the person know how you really feel. Don’t use silence as a weapon because it is deadly.

• Settle your disputes by speaking and listening. It’s a give in take relationship. Can you do it? I know you can!

• Communication is one of the keys to a better marriage. It is very important to be a good listener by giving your spouse your full attention and also expressing yourself in a healthy, honest and loving manner.

• Be a student of your spouse. Know their likes and dislikes, their strengths and weaknesses, and their fears. Then, pray that God will show you how to show love and respect to your spouse accordingly.

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